Every conversation is unique—from small talk to setting a boundary. That's why you need a flexible toolkit, not just one-size-fits-all advice.
See how it works with a sample from each of our four core categories:
• Casual Engagement
• Potential Connections
• Navigating Delicate Issues
• Offering Support
Each card gives you five distinct ways to respond, so you can always find the words that feel most authentic to you.
Light, everyday interactions like smalltalk, playful banter, or commenting on shared experiences where the initiator isn’t necessarily expecting a deep response.
Examples: Greeting someone, talking about the weather, discussing weekend plans.
Moments where you or someone else is trying to spark or deepen a connection through questions, compliments, or shared interests.
Examples: Answering “Where are you from?” or discussing common interests in a way that encourages further conversation.
Moments where someone needs or is offering encouragement, reassurance, or validation.
Examples: Responding to someone feeling insecure about their appearance or giving words of support in tough situations.
Situations that require tact, like asserting boundaries, handling mistakes, or responding to difficult comments.
Examples: Addressing a misunderstanding, setting limits with someone, or responding to self-deprecating remarks.