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For When Situations Favor DIRECTNESS, ACTION, and SOLIDARITY

Ever feel stuck in a conversation, unsure what to say? Or wonder why some relationships just aren’t clicking?

The Conversation Playbook is a practical, flashcard-based system designed to help you find the right words for any situation. With clear, example-based responses, you'll not only have the confidence to speak with ease but also the tools to build stronger connections and turn acquaintances into real friends.

Navigate High-Stakes Moments with Confidence

What do you say when your buddy is about to get in a bar fight?

Or when he asks for your real opinion on a risky new job?

Standard conversation advice doesn't work here

That's why we built The Guy's Addendum.

It's a digital field manual with real-world examples of how to apply direct, action-oriented communication to the situations you face in the everyday non-professional world.

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What It Looks Like

Your Toolkit for Guy-Code Communication

We show you the types of responses that work so you learn the method, not just the lines.

Example "card" showing a scenario of how to handle someone venting at work.
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For each of 35+ common scenarios, you'll find responses that follow several communication frameworks like using Validation to show Empathy or Assertiveness for Confidence.

More importantly, you'll see examples of common statements that create awkwardness and resentment, like One-Upping a friend's story or giving Unsolicited Advice when someone just needs to vent.



But what if...

...you also want a toolkit for starting the discussions that build trust, reveal character, and strengthen bonds?

This addendum also gives you that initiative.
We've organized 48 starter questions into six mission-focused categories:

  Below the Surface • Friendship & Loyalty • Audits of Received Wisdom • Fears, Struggles & Ambition  • Values & Integrity • Reflection & Legacy

Together, they complete your field manual: navigate any moment, uncover new layers, and strengthen bonds.
This addendum also gives you that initiative.
We've organized 48 starter questions into six mission-focused categories:

• Below the Surface
• Friendship & Loyalty

• Audits of Received Wisdom
• Fears, Struggles & Ambition
• Values & Integrity

• Reflection & Legacy

Together, they complete your field manual: navigate any moment, uncover new layers, and strengthen bonds.
Direct, respected communication.

Speak Your Language, Not Theirs

From "You hurt my feelings,"  to  "What you said crossed a line."

One makes you look vulnerable. The other makes you sound clear and respected.

The Myths You Might Believe
A guy actively listening to one of his friends.

MYTH: "You just need to put yourself out there more."

FACT: This is empty advice without the tools to succeed. "Putting yourself out there" is useless when you need to de-escalate a fight, give a hard truth, or reject a request without burning a bridge.

The Addendum gives you the specific tools to navigate these high-stakes moments, so you can lead and build rapport.

MYTH: Communication skills are purely an anxiety issue.

FACT: It's often a skills gap, not a nerve problem. You can be perfectly confident but still not know the right thing to say when a friend is venting or someone makes an intrusive comment.

MYTH: Social situations are too specific and varied for "what to say" examples to be useful.

FACT: You're not learning scripts; you're learning a new vocabulary. The Addendum shows you the underlying patterns of effective communication like Validation, Directness, or Levity.

A guy actively listening to one of his friends.

Never second-guess your response again.

Why sift through generic advice? The Addendum delivers the specific words and patterns for the situations you encounter every day. It’s your digital field manual, giving you the confidence to handle the friction in your social world.

Instant Digital Access: After purchase, you'll immediately receive your guide in PDF format.
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